FLO For Ladies Only


You are cordially invited to join six esteemed gentlemen to discuss the real when it comes to black dating, black relationships and black marriage. FLO is a can't miss pop-up conversation party curated specifically for women highlighting some of the most coveted topics from a black man's perspective Live on Facebook.

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With close to 10 years experience of energizing and connecting singles, Joseph Dixon’s unique approach to building successful relationships has helped thousands with interactive, real-life solutions to finding love. As the Founder, CEO and Matchmaker at RealBlackLove.com; Joseph has dedicated his life to the study of communication and interpersonal relationships that encourages people to connect authentically and effectively.

Joseph launched RBL app in 2014 to provide a safe dating alternative for the African-American community. RBL has been featured in EBONY, CBS Radio, Afro Tech and more. With close to a 500,000 users nationwide, RBL app has become the premier application for relationship-focused black singles.

In 2015, Joseph began offering private matchmaking due to the demand for a more discrete dating service from affluent black singles. In 2019, Joseph was celebrated as one of America’s top matchmakers by iDate.

Dixon’s lifework is driven by his mission to promote healthy, personal relationships and sustain the spirit and image of love in the black community. Joseph believes that more meaningful relationships between African-American men and women is the catalyst to a stronger community. He relishes in his chosen path as he has a direct influence on helping bridge the gap between the sexes.

Website: RealBlackLove.com
Instagram: IG@realblacklove


Vance Andree Taylor is a certified professional coach who specializes in relationships, and owner of adVancetogrow Coaching, a coaching business focused on helping men and women build and maintain healthy, balanced and fulfilling relationships with self and others. Vance has a passion for helping people grow. As the co-founder and co-host of “Between Love & Hate,” a relationship podcast for single, married and divorced men and women, Vance has helped individuals and couples from across the world find hope, inspiration, and motivation to foster stronger relationships. He was featured on the cover of Charlotte Magazine where he shared his story on overcoming adversity during and after divorce, and has been a guest speaker at various workshops and media platforms.

He is the proud father of a teenage boy, a member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc, and volunteers his time teaching financial literacy to non-profits in and around Charlotte. You can follow him on FB/IG/Twitter/YouTube @advancetogrow, and visit his website at adVancetogrow.com. You can also listen to his Podcasts at www.betweenloveandhate.podbean.com.


Eddie D. Love "The Millennial Influencer", is a Certified Professional Life Coach, Author, Speaker, and Founder of Black Charlotte Business Coalition. He is a natural born leader with a passion for inspiring others to tap into their full potential!

Eddie was a long time contributor for PRIDE magazine, Charlotte's oldest African American business and lifestyle publication. Eddie has passionately served the community by working with Big Brothers Big Sisters, Optimist Club International, Project Bridge, and several other nonprofit organizations. He currently serves on the board for Sickle Cell Partners of the Carolinas and on the advisory council for The Institute for the Development of Young Leaders in Durham, NC.

The 2015 publication, Escape From Poverty: 28 Ways to Win at Life has been critically acclaimed by educators and mental health professionals since inception and is currently being studied by students across the United States. The second book, "Let's Talk About Love: The Blog Book" was inspired by a series of articles Eddie wrote as a contributor for several popular relationship sites including RBL.

Eddie is married to his best friend, Shapera K. Love and they reside in Charlotte, NC. They currently have one child, Kylyn Grace, who will soon be a big time 3rd grader!

Follow on Facebook & Instagram: @Themillennialinfluencer


Troy Spry is a speaker, author, and certified life and relationship coach and “Reality Expert”. A graduate of Winthrop University in South Carolina, he studied Psychology and officially began the study of human behavior. Troy started a blog called XKLUSIVE THOUGHTS as a way to invite the world to share in the many interesting thoughts and conversations he had about life, love and the lessons they’ve taught him.

His popular blog, books, conversation parties, webinars and seminars, inspirational morning messages, lunchtime discussions, and personal one-on-one relationship and life coaching helped Troy grow from a blog, to a brand, to movement. He holds a position as an official staff writer for the award winning website BlackAndMarriedWithKids.com where he was recently the recipient of the “WRITER OF THE YEAR” and “WRITERS CHOICE AWARD.” Troy also has had the pleasure of writing for celebrity matchmaker Paul C. Brunson, has had his work featured in JET Magazine Online, and was chosen to be a guest blogger for the Steve Harvey Act like a Success Conference. He is a dating expert and contributor for DatingAdvice.com, DigitalRomance.Com, VixenDaily.com, and RealBlackLove.com. Troy has been listed as a premier coach by BlackMenRock.net, has had the honor of being a featured guest on HuffPost Live, and WBTV Bounce TV in Charlotte, NC and FOX 46’s Good Morning Charlotte!

Troy’s blogging has taken him to new levels as he just released his new book “Teach Me How To Love: Why What You Don’t Know Will Hurt You” which is the second volume after publishing his first E-Book entitled “Teach Me How To Love: A Man’s Journey Toward and Through Marriage.” Troy’s mission is simple: To inspire individuals to first become better people so that they can become better mates, create better relationships and ultimately help to build better communities. He is a firm believer in the fact that you must live life intentionally and on purpose!

Outside of his writing, coaching, and speaking endeavors, Troy enjoys playing sports, traveling and spending time with his wife, friends, and brothers of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Inc. It is time with those closest to him that keeps him grounded, relatable, and humble. You can contact and follow Troy on twitter and Instagram at @Xklusive5 or on his Facebook fan page by searching Xklusive Thoughts. You can email him at info@XklusiveThoughts.com and his personal website and blog is www.xklusivethoughts.com. You can purchase his book at www.TeachMeHow2Love.com.


Casey Jordan resides in Mobile, Alabama by the way of Detroit, Michigan. He currently is a board member of the mentor organization L.O.V.E.S.P.E.A.Ks, where he helps mentor and develop youth in the community and surrounding areas. He is also a board of the Voices of Gospel Music Awards where he serves as the marketing director. Casey last year became a self published author with the release of his first book of poetry entitled: My Thoughts: The Journey To Find Her. In March of 2020, Casey married Kenyetta Williams after seeing her profile on the RBL App and they have a total of 7 children collectively. His passion is for music, helping the youth and he serves consistently at his church.


Travis Moore is a model, actor, and most recently the director of the Boys and Girls Club of Greater High Point. He is enjoying his journey in the entertainment business. Known for his first leading male role, as Devlin Straightlin, in the indie film “The Present” by Terry D. Films, Travis realizes that nothing is too hard for God. His role as Marlin Brown, on TV One’s Fatal Attraction, was his debut on national television. Travis has been the face of Rite-Aid Pharmacy and seen across the nation on posters, brochures and web media. In addition, he has modeled for multiple clients such as Lowes Home Improvement, IBM, Lenovo, Wrangler, SAS, Ryobi, and Amtrak to name a few.

Travis is also passionate about reaching back and building the youth. As director of the Boys and Girls Club of Greater High Point, he focuses on youth development programming to give the next generation life skills for success. As a liaison for the community, Travis has partnered with the United Way of Greater High Point, Fairview Family Resource Center, the High Point Peacemakers, Guilford County Schools and Guilford County Parks and Recreations to provide resources for children and their families.

A proud native of Greensboro, Travis is a graduate of North Carolina A&T State University with a Bachelor of Science in Biology. He and his beautiful wife of thirteen years, Natalya, have two wonderful daughters, Zoey and Zion. He loves mentoring and challenges his mentees to believe that if anyone can do it, they can. Travis stands on the principle that “the steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and he delights in his way.” - Psalm 37:24. Everything in life is about God’s timing. With projects lining up for 2020, Travis is looking forward to bigger and better opportunities coming his way!