Real Black Love Story Joseph Dixon Proposes to Tracy
Joseph Dixon CEO and founder of proposes during what Tracy thought would be a testimonial for RealBlackLove dating app. Press play below to watch.   View more about the Real Black Love story by clicking HERE  

Real Black Love Story - The Proposal

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The NEW RealBlackLove Dating App

black woman with kids and children
So I am talking to a client and she informed me that she is done with dating men without children. I asked her why and she stated that men without kids just don’t get it. After our conversation I thought about the first time I dated a woman with children. It definately […]

What To Know When Dating a Single Woman with Kids

Black Family Eating
Recently, I was watching one of Chris Rock’s classic stand-up shows, Bigger & Blacker. It never fails that every time I watch it there is one skit that cracks me up with no hesitation—the big piece of chicken. If you haven’t seen it, I recommend you look it up; that’s […]

Who Gets the Big Piece of Chicken?

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In my 20’s, most emotional baggage references were geared toward women.  In my experience, the words man and baggage would rarely occupy the same sentence. Although naive then, I was intelligent enough to know that it was just a matter of semantics. However, I still formed my opinions regarding how relationship […]

Baggage Check: is he Carrying too Much?

There once was a girl who wanted to have it all. A great career, travel to distant lands and to find true love. On her quest to discover herself a long the way she encountered some unique experiences. She met someone whom ignited her inside, made her feel alive, and […]

The Side Chick That Refused to Cheat Herself

What Kind of Lover Are you
The perception of what love is shapes us into the lovers that we are. When you come into the understanding of yourself and know exactly what makes up your core, navigating future relationships become much more rewarding. Find the type of lover you are below and be honest with yourself in choosing. […]

What Kind of Lover Are You?

As we are approaching spring mode, closing in on the end of yet another winter, singles are ready to frolic about. Many attest that the city they live in hinders them from finding Mr. or Ms. Right. We have decided to conduct our own research to settle the case once and for all. […]

10 Worst Cities for Dating Black Singles.

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During the winter months, living in solitude can get pretty lonely and women everywhere fall into the cycle of bad dates and broken hearts. However these are some tips to help relieve the tension and help them attract the mate they deserve. 1. Every one you talk to/date briefly you […]

Desperate & Thirsty: 10 ways women come off too needy ...

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Last month I discovered what I now consider to be my new “go-to” television channel for that ethnic programming balance I fiend for at times—Aspire TV. Aspire was created and launched by legendary NBA player and entrepreneur Magic Johnson back in 2012. In my discovery, I found a golden nugget […]

The Depth of an Emotional Affair.

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Have you ever experienced the smitten spirit of all things heavenly quickly leave your body reversing the real thing to regret? Have you ever watched your romantic comedy turn into a thriller?  I mean, no person truly invested wants to just walk away from a budding relationship – but there’s […]

When Things Fall Apart.

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My favorite time of day is early morning when everything is quiet and my thoughts are lazy vs. chaotic.  This morning those lazy thoughts are on being in a relationship with my best friend.  I have recently read a post on the web about 3 ways being in a relationship with your […]

Between Lovers And Friends

black men singles event networking
Would you agree that black men don’t attend singles and networking events? As a person that hosts social events, I often find myself staring at a crowd full of women and it makes me wonder, why? Don’t get me wrong, there are the guys that enjoy attending these types of events and […]

3 Reasons Black Men Don’t Do Singles and Networking Events

catching feelings
I was always told by my grandfather to find a man that loved me more so I would always have a true love surrounding me. As I listen to my single friends, and their horror stories of the current dating scene, I am starting to wonder if it is even […]

Catching Feelings…

Black man and woman in bed making love
I know the title of this article sounds harsh, but allow me to go there for a moment. It pains me to see how many daggers are thrown to previous women. So often on my timeline I see quotes like, “He chose me not you.”. “You didn’t measure up.” or […]

He Chose You Because I Was No Longer An Option!

Couple of the Month Real Black LoveAngel Olubodun and Johnathan Hicks
Let’s congratulate Johnathan Hicks and Angel Olubodun on qualifying for the $1,000 Grandprize as July’s 2016 #CoupleOfTheMonth on Engaged and reside in Greensboro North Carolina. Together 7 Years.   What we do: John-I just finished College and will be graduating in a few days with an Associates degree in Network […]

Couple of the Month (July 2016)

black woman beauty within
As we move through life, we experience all types of relationships, whether they are familial, or romantically based, they all require both parties to know and love themselves so the relationship can have a solid foundation. We often judge ourselves harshly for mistakes that we have made in the past. […]

Five Ways To Begin to Love from Inside Out.

When reading about love, sex, dating and relationships online or in the mainstream media, it is seldom we find positive, helpful articles about black love. Over the last five years, black relationships have become visible in the mainstream à la ‘Love & Hip Hop,’ other celebrity-focused productions, and sitcoms — […]

More Black Love, Please!

black woman broken hearted
  When most of us think of someone being guarded of their heart, we tend to the thoughts of someone being stern, having short lived dating lives, cold shouldering potential match after match. Our emotions are interconnected not solitary, so when one suffers so does the ability to draw from […]

Fear of Getting Your Heart Broken.

If I told you that half the people in the United States were single, would you believe me? Well, don’t take my word for it, in 2014 the Bureau of Labor Statistics found that 124.6 million Americans aged 16 years or older classified themselves as single. Alarming figures right? In […]

Single or Nah?

Black Woman Cheating
I could develop a list of reasons that deter women from being faithful in relationships but it all boils down to one simple fact.  Yeah that’s right, just one!  Women only cheat when they’re unhappy.  Yep.  That’s the only reason. Ladies if you think I’m lying, just take a moment to […]

The ONLY Reason Why Women Cheat!

Couple of the Month Real Black Love
MEET THE NOMINEES FOR AUGUST 2016 You can vote for your favorite couple once every 24 hours. Please cast your vote at the bottom of this page. Voting ends July 31, 2016   Tyler Potts and Danielle Potts City, State: Florence SC Relationship status: Married Together how long: We were best […]

Couple Of The Month Voting

black woman mad
How many times have we as women sacrificed our happiness, health, and hearts, for the sake of clinging to a no-good relationship? Those sacrifices happen far more often than we would like to admit to ourselves, and in the end we end up hurt, broken, and more confused about what […]

You Need To Cut It: Quit Accepting Heartache

Ask A Real Man on Real Black Love
EPISODE 2   EPISODE 1 Submit Your Questions This is your chance to get the REAL answers that you desire about dating or your relationship. Got a question that you want the men to answer? Fill-out the form below so they can answer it on the next, “Ask A Real […]


Happy Black Woman and Man Relationship
Many men have said that women are hard to understand and they find it very hard to figure out what their woman really wants and needs to keep their relationship happy and on track. The 20 tips below are not a rule book for each and every woman but they […]

20 Ways to Keep Your Black Woman Happy!

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It’s that time of year again when thousands of women say yes to the bling and wedding invitations appear in the mailbox with your choice of chicken or fish. Your Facebook timeline is polluted with cheesy engagement photos and epic proposals; one outdoing the other. All of a sudden you’re […]

Married Women Be Kind To Your Single Friends.

I’m sure many of you have heard the old saying, don’t let a television raise your child. As a parent this was the ultimate slap in the face (if you were ever accused of it). Basically, you were being defined as a parent who was unfit, neglectful and unreliable. These […]

Your Relationship will Not be Televised!

As it relates to causes of divorce, breakups, and relationship problems, it doesn’t take an expert to understand that infidelity ranks atop the list. Having been a man my entire life, I can only offer perspective on why men cheat, however, females are cheaters too! There are many triggers that […]

3 Reasons Men Cheat

Jennifer Hurdle and Donte Hurdle Couple of the Month Real Black Love
Let’s congratulate Donte Hurdle and Jennifer Hurdle on qualifying for the $1,000 Grandprize as June’s 2016 #CoupleOfTheMonth on   Married and reside in Greensboro, NC. Together Seven Years What we do: Jennifer works at the Department of Health and Human Services in Greensboro and Donte works at Labcorp. Meeting: We first officially […]

Couple of the Month (June 2016)

Black Power Couple Relationship
What are the key ingredients to a healthy romantic relationship? I usually start with this question when couples come to me for relationship coaching. Asking this question allows me to understand the principles and values that the relationship is built on. This question also allows me to pinpoint exactly how […]

Put Some RespecK On Your Relationship!

african american wedding
The beauty of marriage: the legally or formally recognized union of a man and a woman as partners in a relationship, the date women circle on their calendars with a huge red heart, the day some men dread as young boys, then there’s the one element that many of us […]

I Married You, Not Your Mother!

When you’re in a relationship with someone amazing it can begin to feel very magical. It’s as though time stops and the world is now orbiting around the both of you—instead of the sun. Although, often times we rush the dating process which might cause problems in the relationship later […]

Stop Rushing Me!

black mother quotes
So my (Question of the Day) today on Facebook was “What is something your mother said or taught you about dating and relationships”.  The answers were so good I thought I share them with the world. You can find the original post and comments on facebook HERE.   Tandra Campbell’s […]

What My Mother Taught Me About Dating and Relationships.

Robert Reid and Janet Parker Couple of the Month
Let’s congratulate Robert Reid Jr. and Janet Parker on qualifying for the $1,000 Grandprize as May’s 2016 #CoupleOfTheMonth on   Reside in Columbia, SC and Charlotte, NC Together Two Years   What we do: Robert is a traveling Registered Nurse and Clinical Informaticist. Janet is a news anchor for the Fox […]

Couple of the Month (May 2016)

self love and relationships
Most of us don’t learn the lesson of self-love until we have either 1) been severely heart-broken or 2) been single for a very long time.  But regardless to how you encounter the lesson, it’s important to know how your next relationship can benefit from your new found wisdom. Now […]

5 Ways Self-Love Helps Relationships!

Black Woman dating on the web
My heart is heavy hearing about a young lady who lost her life with an encounter with allegedly an online dating incident. I did online dating for several years prior to getting married and I want to share some strategies I used to keep myself safe: 1. I always took a […]

Don’t Be the Next Online Dating Victim.

real black love jay z and beyonce
With the phenomenon that is Beyoncé and the release of her new audio visual album “Lemonade”, I think that it was only appropriate that I explain the many chapters of pain/lemons that we can tolerate. What a lot of our parents neglected to tell us was that all relationships have their taste of […]

Beyonce’ Gave you the Best Lemonade. Drink It!