• are 30 years of age or older;     
  • have the right, authority, and capacity to enter into these Terms of Use and to abide by all of the terms and conditions of these Terms of Use;      
  • have never been charged, indicted, convicted of, or pleaded no contest to a felony, a sex crime, or any crime involving violence;
  • have not previously been removed from our Service by us, unless we have given you express written permission to create a new account;
  • are not required to register as a sex offender with any government entity; 
  • are not legally married and that you are using the Services for bona fide-relationship-seeking purposes; and 
  • are not otherwise barred from using the Service under the laws of any state, the United States, or other applicable jurisdiction. 
  1. A VIP Member (“VIP Member”) grants access to the full range of services within Real Black Love, including a dedicated matchmaker. Services consist of a VIP photoshoot, searching the member database for possible matches, screening potential matches for possible introduction, introduction planning, and feedback. Searches may be conducted via the Real Black Love proprietary platform technology or other recruiting efforts.  Additional information on the VIP Membership can be found in the Service Agreement.
  2. A Candidate Member (“Candidate Member”) grants inclusion into the database for priority matching with VIP Members once a Match Review has been conducted.
  3. A Standard Member (“Standard Member”) grants inclusion into the database for possible matching with VIP Members. Standard Members will need to be screened before they are eligible for an introduction with a VIP member.
  • Your matchmaker will never orchestrate a date in a non-public or remote location. If someone pressures you to change locations to an isolated place or prematurely moves the date to their house, end the date and leave. Let your matchmaker know.
  • Always protect your personal information (e.g., address, Social Security number) and avoid sharing it with people you do not know. Don’t reveal family members’ names, places you frequently visit, or your birth date. It’s okay to take it slow.
  • E-mail or text with caution and only after confident in your knowledge of someone. Until you get to know someone, insist on communicating via the Services and do not exchange your personal contact information.
  • Never send money or financial information online. If another Real Black Love Client asks you for money, please report it to us immediately.
  • Also, please immediately report anyone who violates our Terms of Use. Here are some examples of violations:
  • Requesting money
  • Underage users
  • Sending harassing, threatening, or offensive messages
  • Behaving inappropriately during or after a date
  • Creating fraudulent profiles
  • Spamming or soliciting, including providing links to commercial websites, or attempting to sell products or services
  • Tell a friend or family member about your date plans, including when and where you’re going, with whom, and when you expect to return.
  • Carry your fully charged cell phone with you at all times.
  • Drive yourself or use a ride-share app to get to and from your date location, so you can leave if and when you want to.
  • You know your limits with drug and alcohol consumption better than anyone.  If your date tries to pressure you to use drugs or drink more than you’re comfortable with, end the date.
  • Never leave drinks or personal items unattended. 
  • Don’t ignore your own instincts. If a situation is making you uneasy, don’t hesitate to call a friend or alert your server.  It’s okay to leave the date immediately if you feel uncomfortable.
  • It is reasonable and within your rights to have an honest conversation with a partner about sexual contact before having it, including asking the last time someone was tested for STIs.
  • When used properly and consistently, condoms and other protection can reduce the risk of contracting or passing on an STI, such as HIV. However, it is possible to get certain STIs, like herpes or HPV, from contact with your partner’s skin even when using a condom.
  • All sexual activity must start with consent. Verbal communication can help you and your partner ensure that you respect each other’s boundaries. Remember that consent can be withdrawn at any time. Never proceed if your partner is unsure, or if they are unable to consent due to alcohol or drugs.
  • You will not pretend to be any person or entity other than yourself.
  • You will not provide any false, misleading, or otherwise fraudulent information including but not limited to your personally identifiable information, geographical residence, marital status, financial status, professional status, and any other information furnished by you as required to deliver the services to you.
  • You will disclose any prior criminal history including arrest records, charges, indictments, convictions, acquittals, and any other information regarding any involvement in any criminal matter(s).
  • You will disclose any personal bankruptcy filings or dispositions, and any other information that would materially impact your approval as a Real Black Love VIP member.
  • You will not imply or state that any statements you make are endorsed by Real Black Love without our prior written consent.
  • You will not use the Services to promote, condone, endorse, distribute, publish, or post any material that solicits money, funds, or people.
  • You will not use the Services to advertise or solicit for commercial goods or services.
  • You will review, and become familiar with, the Safety Tips.
  • You will not stalk, bully, intimidate, defame, or harass another User of the Services.
  • You will not harass, annoy, intimidate, threaten, or otherwise engage in any unreasonable conduct toward any Real Black Love employees, agents, or matchmakers engaged in providing the Services to you.
  • You will not use the Website and/or the Services to transmit, upload, or distribute any electronic/computer viruses, spyware, adware, trojan horses, or anything else that might cause harm to other Users of the Services, Real Black Love, the online community, or Real Black Love systems.
  • You will not use a robot, spider, manual/automatic processes, or devices to data-mine, data-crawl, scrape, or index the Website in any manner.
  • You will not hack or interfere with the Website, its servers, or any connected networks.
  • You will not modify the Website and/or the Services for your own personal or commercial purposes. This includes, but is not limited to, altering, adapting, licensing, sublicensing, or translating the Website and/or the Services. You also agree that you will not aid others in such activities.
  • You will not remove or alter, visually or not, any copyrights, trademarks, or proprietary marks and rights owned by us.
  • You will not forge, manipulate, or plagiarize messages, communications, headers, or identifiers to make it seem like such Content (defined below) is from Real Black Love or its Users when in fact it is not.
  • You will not post, publish, display, or transmit in any way, any proprietary information, copyrighted material, or trademarks that do not belong to you without first obtaining the prior consent of the owner of such rights.
  • If you must reschedule or cancel a date, we require 48-hour notice.
  • Consistent or repeated refusal of matches, problematic lack of availability, or poor behavior on a date could lead to immediate termination of your account without refund as stated in the “Interactions with Your Matchmaker” Section above.
  • You may “pause” the Services as outlined in the Cancellation and Refund Policy.
  • Content that advocates, endorses, condones, or promotes harassment of others, or Content that actively or indirectly harasses others.
  • Content that is offensive and harmful, or that advocates, endorses, condones, or promotes racism, bigotry, hatred, or physical harm of any kind against any individual or group of individuals.
  • Content that involves the creation of or transmission of spam, unsolicited mail, junk mail, chain letters, advertisements or commercial solicitations.
  • Content that asks for or solicits passwords or personal information from other Users.
  • Content that engages other users in promotional, commercial activities, or sales without Real Black Love’s prior written consent, including, but not limited to, sweepstakes, contests, pyramid schemes, or advertising.
  • Content that provides materials or access to materials that exploits people in an abusive, violent, or sexual manner.
  • Content that you know, or should reasonably know, is false, inaccurate, misleading, or promotes illegal activities.
  • Content that is abusive, threatening, obscene, libelous, or defamatory.
  • Content that is, uses, promotes, or links to an illegal or unauthorized copy of another person’s copyrighted work or intellectual property.
  • Content that provides instructions on how to conduct, or that advocates for, illegal activities.
  • A physical or electronic signature of the individual or entity who owns the copyright;
  • A description of and URL link to the copyrighted work that you believe has been infringed upon;
  • Your postal mailing address;
  • Your telephone number;
  • Your email address; and
  • A written statement by you that you believe, in good faith, that the usage of the work is not authorized or consented to by the rightful copyright owner.
  1. Eligibility
  • are 25 years of age or older;     
  • have the right, authority, and capacity to enter into these Terms of Use and to abide by all of the terms and conditions of these Terms of Use;      
  • have never been charged, indicted, convicted of, or pleaded no contest to a felony, a sex crime, or any crime involving violence;
  • have not previously been removed from our Service by us, unless we have given you express written permission to create a new account;
  • are not required to register as a sex offender with any government entity; 
  • are not married (although you may be separated with a divorce pending so long as you properly disclose your true marital status) and that you are using the Services for bona fide-relationship-seeking purposes; and 
  • are not otherwise barred from using the Service under the laws of any state, the United States, or other applicable jurisdiction. 
  1. Usage and Subscriptions
  1. A VIP Member (“VIP Member”) grants access to the full range of services within Real Black Love, including a dedicated matchmaker. Services consist of a VIP photoshoot, searching the member database for possible matches, screening potential matches for possible introduction, introduction planning, and feedback. Searches may be conducted via the Real Black Love proprietary platform technology or other recruiting efforts.  Additional information on the VIP Membership can be found in the Service Agreement.
  2. A Candidate Member (“Candidate Member”) grants inclusion into the database for priority matching with VIP Members once a Match Review has been conducted.
  3. A Standard Member (“Standard Member”) grants inclusion into the database for possible matching with VIP Members. Standard Members will need to be screened before they are eligible for an introduction with a VIP member.
  1. Illegal and Unauthorized Use
  • Your matchmaker will never orchestrate a date in a non-public or remote location. If someone pressures you to change locations to an isolated place or prematurely moves the date to their house, end the date and leave. Let your matchmaker know.
  • Always protect your personal information (e.g., address, Social Security number) and avoid sharing it with people you do not know. Don’t reveal family members’ names, places you frequently visit, or your birth date. It’s okay to take it slow.
  • E-mail or text with caution and only after confident in your knowledge of someone. Until you get to know someone, insist on communicating via the Services and do not exchange your personal contact information.
  • Never send money or financial information online. If another Real Black Love Client asks you for money, please report it to us immediately.
  • Also, please immediately report anyone who violates our Terms of Use. Here are some examples of violations:
  • Requesting money
  • Underage users
  • Sending harassing, threatening, or offensive messages
  • Behaving inappropriately during or after a date
  • Creating fraudulent profiles
  • Spamming or soliciting, including providing links to commercial websites, or attempting to sell products or services
  • Tell a friend or family member about your date plans, including when and where you’re going, with whom, and when you expect to return.
  • Carry your fully charged cell phone with you at all times.
  • Drive yourself or use a ride-share app to get to and from your date location, so you can leave if and when you want to.
  • You know your limits with drug and alcohol consumption better than anyone.  If your date tries to pressure you to use drugs or drink more than you’re comfortable with, end the date.
  • Never leave drinks or personal items unattended. 
  • Don’t ignore your own instincts. If a situation is making you uneasy, don’t hesitate to call a friend or alert your server.  It’s okay to leave the date immediately if you feel uncomfortable.
  • It is reasonable and within your rights to have an honest conversation with a partner about sexual contact before having it, including asking the last time someone was tested for STIs.
  • When used properly and consistently, condoms and other protection can reduce the risk of contracting or passing on an STI, such as HIV. However, it is possible to get certain STIs, like herpes or HPV, from contact with your partner’s skin even when using a condom.
  • All sexual activity must start with consent. Verbal communication can help you and your partner ensure that you respect each other’s boundaries. Remember that consent can be withdrawn at any time. Never proceed if your partner is unsure, or if they are unable to consent due to alcohol or drugs.
  • You will not pretend to be any person or entity other than yourself.
  • You will not provide any false, misleading, or otherwise fraudulent information including but not limited to your personally identifiable information, geographical residence, marital status, financial status, professional status, and any other information furnished by you as required to deliver the services to you.
  • You will disclose any prior criminal history including arrest records, charges, indictments, convictions, acquittals, and any other information regarding any involvement in any criminal matter(s).
  • You will disclose any personal bankruptcy filings or dispositions, and any other information that would materially impact your approval as a Real Black Love VIP member.
  • You will not imply or state that any statements you make are endorsed by Real Black Love without our prior written consent.
  • You will not use the Services to promote, condone, endorse, distribute, publish, or post any material that solicits money, funds, or people.
  • You will not use the Services to advertise or solicit for commercial goods or services.
  • You will review, and become familiar with, the Safety Tips.
  • You will not stalk, bully, intimidate, defame, or harass another User of the Services.
  • You will not harass, annoy, intimidate, threaten or otherwise engage in any unreasonable conduct toward any Real Black Love employees, agents, or matchmakers engaged in providing the Services to you.
  • You will not use the Website and/or the Services to transmit, upload, or distribute any electronic/computer viruses, spyware, adware, trojan horses, or anything else that might cause harm to other Users of the Services, Real Black Love, the online community, or Real Black Love systems.
  • You will not use a robot, spider, manual/automatic processes or devices to data-mine, data-crawl, scrape, or index the Website in any manner.
  • You will not hack or interfere with the Website, its servers, or any connected networks.
  • You will not modify the Website and/or the Services for your own personal or commercial purposes. This includes, but is not limited to, altering, adapting, licensing, sublicensing, or translating the Website and/or the Services. You also agree that you will not aid others in such activities.
  • You will not remove or alter, visually or not, any copyrights, trademarks, or proprietary marks and rights owned by us.
  • You will not forge, manipulate, or plagiarize messages, communications, headers, or identifiers to make it seem like such Content (defined below) is from Real Black Love or its Users when in fact it is not.
  • You will not post, publish, display, or transmit in any way, any proprietary information, copyrighted material, and trademarks that do not belong to you without first obtaining the prior consent of the owner of such rights.
  • If you must reschedule or cancel a date, we require 48-hour notice.
  • Consistent or repeated refusal of matches, problematic lack of availability, or poor behavior on a date could lead to immediate termination of your account without refund as stated in the “Interactions with Your Matchmaker” Section above.
  • You may “pause” the Services as set forth in the Cancellation and Refund Policy.
  • Content that advocates, endorses, condones, or promotes harassment of others, or Content that actively or indirectly harasses others.
  • Content that is offensive and harmful, or that advocates, endorses, condones, or promotes racism, bigotry, hatred, or physical harm of any kind against any individual or group of individuals.
  • Content that involves the creation of or transmission of spam, unsolicited mail, junk mail, chain letters, advertisements or commercial solicitations.
  • Content that asks for or solicits passwords or personal information from other Users.
  • Content that engages other users in promotional, commercial activities, or sales without Real Black Love’s prior written consent, including, but not limited to, sweepstakes, contests, pyramid schemes, or advertising.
  • Content that provides materials or access to materials that exploits people in an abusive, violent, or sexual manner.
  • Content that you know, or should reasonably know, is false, inaccurate, misleading, or promotes illegal activities.
  • Content that is abusive, threatening, obscene, libelous, or defamatory.
  • Content that is, uses, promotes, or links to an illegal or unauthorized copy of another person’s copyrighted work or intellectual property.
  • Content that provides instructions on how to conduct, or that advocates for, illegal activities.
  • A physical or electronic signature of the individual or entity who owns the copyright;
  • A description of and url link to the copyrighted work that you believe has been infringed upon;
  • Your postal mailing address;
  • Your telephone number;
  • Your email address; and
  • A written statement by you that you believe, in good faith, that the usage of the work is not authorized or consented upon by the rightful copyright owner.