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RealBlackLove has been successfully matching accomplished, intelligent, career-minded singles for years. When extraordinary singles want to change their relationship status, they turn to matchmakers Joseph and Paris of RealBlackLove. Voted as the nation's top black matchmaking agency, love experts Joseph and Paris enjoy working with affluent and motivated individuals just like you.

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The Matchmaking Couple

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With 10 years of experience and connecting African-American singles, the matchmaking couple of Joseph and Paris offer a unique approach to building successful relationships. The matching duo have helped thousands with interactive, real-life solutions to finding true love. As professional matchmakers, the couple have dedicated their life to the study of communication and interpersonal relationships that encourages people of color to connect authentically and effectively. In 2019, RealBlackLove Matchmaking was celebrated as America’s leading black matchmaking agency by iDate.

The duo's lifework is driven by their mission to promote healthy, personal relationships and sustain the spirit and image of love in the black community. Joseph and Paris believe that more meaningful relationships between African-American men and women is the catalyst to a stronger community. The duo relishes in their chosen path as they have a direct influence in helping bridge the gap between the sexes.

Joseph and Paris reside in Charlotte, NC where they work diligently to assist dating single black men and women nationwide establish long-life connections.

For speaking engagements or general inquires you can contact the couple at (800) 511 - 0752 or email


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The Coach
Dr. Aesha Adams-Roberts

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As one of the top dating & relationship experts for successful women, Dr. Aesha has masterfully coached celebrities, professional athletes and powerhouse professionals to meet and marry the man of their dreams faster than they thought possible. Dr. Aesha is the creator of the Be Found Dating Methodology which empowers women with tools to prepare for lasting love, navigate the modern dating world of online dating, swiping, texting and ghosting so that they can create healthy, sustainable relationships.

A highly sought-after speaker, she has been featured on Lifetime TV, OWN TV’s Black Love Docuseries Live Summit, Aspire TV, The Chicago Tribune, Madame Noire, The Game Show Network, The Great Love Debate, and more for her unique wisdom and proven strategies that equip women of power to create the life and relationship they desire.

For speaking engagements or general inquires you can contact Dr. Aesha at (800) 511 - 0752 or email